Being Your Own

"Let's have a toast for the douche bags! 

Let's have a toast for the [butt] holes! 

Let's have a toast for the scumbags!

Every one of them that I know

Let's have a toast for the jerkoffs

That'll never take work off

Baby, I got a plan

Run away as fast as you can!"

((Runaway by Silverstein))

There is a time and a place to allow others to control you.

But,

Let's be honest, you like to be able to control yourself.
And you should be your own person.

When you get to a certain time in your life, you need to learn to make choices.

It's hard of course, but it's necessary.

If you allow someone else to make all of your decisions for you,

When will you ever learn?

I'm not saying asking for advice is a bad thing,

It can be a WONDERFUL thing.

But before you ask for advice, maybe you should contemplate your situation beforehand.

When you go to that trusted person,

lay out your thoughts and ideas for them, THEN after they understand,

THEN ask them what their opinion is.

It's also ok not to do what they say.

If you don't fully agree with it, take it into consideration, but do what you feel is right.

'Tis all I have to say :P